I've had a number of
I've had a number of women say that to me this year--that they'd immersed themselves in a promiscuous lifestyle and gotten "bored" of it, and now they find sex in a committed relationship to be better (oh yeah--and your boyfriend didn't even touch you for the last six months you were together).
Sometimes you can add up the long-term boyfriends and the confessed eight-month dry spells, and come to the conclusion that all this free-lovin' recklessness must have occurred during a three week period in the summer of 1996. Not that I think the ladies are frontin', but I suspect that some women may have different definitions of "promiscuity" than I do.
Sexual pessimism takes many forms... none of which I can relate to.
I'm sleepy right now and this is turning into a whole different essay. I just hope that if you had a crappy one-night stand in March and a crappy one-night stand in June, it's not going to prevent you from having a torrid sizzling affair with me in December.